Change Your Words, Change Your Life

“I have a dream” Martin Luther King.
 “Never, never give up!” Winston Churchill
 “Four score and seven years ago,” Abraham Lincoln.

These famous words so eloquently delivered, influenced nations in a powerful way and will live forever in our memories. Three men were motivated by their passion, conviction, determination, and courage. These were  also men of great faith who believed in the principle of freedom.

Words  have a magnificent and awesome power to effect change. The words you and I use have great power as well. Words can heal or harm, build up or destroy, uplift or tear down. All of us can remember words spoken by parents, siblings, and classmates, that affected us strongly in some way.

The effects of our words have much more impact than we realize, because they carry energy which is either positive or negative. In his book, “Awaken the Giant Within”, motivational speaker Tony Robbins talks about the power of words. He suggests we maximize positive words to increase pleasure and minimize negative words to decrease pain. For example, instead of angry say disenchanted. Instead of confused, say curious. Say unstoppable rather than confident. Robbins encourages us to use “transformational vocabulary” with the goal being to minimize our negative feelings.

In my opinion, the greatest motivational speaker of all time was Jesus Christ. Think about his words and the impact they had on people he encountered:
“You are forgiven.”
“Do unto others as you would have done unto you.”
“Your faith has made you well.”

His words healed the sick and the blind, the down-trodden and the outcasts of society. The Bible refers to Jesus as “The Word” (John 1:1) which relates back to ancient Greek philosophy and refers to divine wisdom, reason, and creative power.

What kinds of words are you speaking out? To your kids, your friends and coworkers and more importantly, to yourself? And to God?

If you want to transform your life, I encourage you to start changing the way you speak. Instead of saying “This —- is going to kill me” say “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me”.  Instead of saying “I feel fat, ugly, old” say “I am fearfully and wonderfully made.” It is true. “Death and life are in the power of the tongue” (Prov. 18:21). 

Write and share what one phrase you are going to stop using this week. Let’s all speak words of life and faith and watch our lives be transformed.

Until next time, keep the faith and keep looking up!

Ariel

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New Ways

Are things going the way you would like them to go in your life? Some things may be going just great, but then, there are those other areas that might not be so smooth.

I have noticed that when the Lord is trying to tell me something, I usually get the same uncomfortable feeling in various situations in my life. “Hmmm, this feels familiar,” I find myself saying and it causes me to pause and reflect. Lately, the Lord has been working on my speech. Believe it or not, there is great power in the words we speak.

For instance, yesterday my son was telling me how he didn’t get much done in his internship search last week. “Well, why not?” I immediately queried. The minute the words were out of my mouth, I realized I had said the wrong thing. Was that kind? Was it encouraging? Was it necessary? No, no, and no. If the answer to any of these questions is no, it is best not to even speak the words. There I was – treading on God’s territory – again.

As my son courageously set his boundary with me on the question, I uttered a pathetic excuse. “But I was only trying to understand you.” But really, I was reacting out of fear, right?

When will I learn? So a new post-it goes up in my house. Whenever I am trying to retrain myself in a certain area, I post a sticky note to remind me. It’s a simple trick that is very effective.

Today is a new day. God’s mercies are new every day and thankfully my son has learned to let go of things. He has so much to teach me and I thought I was the one teaching him 🙂

New Ways

Are things going the way you would like them to go in your life? Some things may be going just great, but then, there are those other areas that might not be so smooth.

I have noticed that when the Lord is trying to tell me something, I usually get the same uncomfortable feeling in various situations in my life. “Hmmm, this feels familiar,” I find myself saying and it causes me to pause and reflect. Lately, the Lord has been working on my speech. Believe it or not, there is great power in the words we speak.

For instance, yesterday my son was telling me how he didn’t get much done in his internship search last week. “Well, why not?” I immediately queried. The minute the words were out of my mouth, I realized I had said the wrong thing. Was that kind? Was it encouraging? Was it necessary? No, no, and no. If the answer to any of these questions is no, it is best not to even speak the words. There I was – treading on God’s territory – again.

As my son courageously set his boundary with me on the question, I uttered a pathetic excuse. “But I was only trying to understand you.” But really, I was reacting out of fear, right?

When will I learn? So a new post-it goes up in my house. Whenever I am trying to retrain myself in a certain area, I post a sticky note to remind me. It’s a simple trick that is very effective.

Today is a new day. God’s mercies are new every day and thankfully my son has learned to let go of things. He has so much to teach me and I thought I was the one teaching him 🙂