It is November and the holidays are fast approaching. Planning the Thanksgiving menu, Xmas gift list, and deciding on which activities to say yes or no to. I am starting to feel that pressure; you know the “too much to do” pressure. I know I am not alone in this and I am determined to not let it get to me this year.
Which means, some things have to change. But first, and more importantly is understanding where this feeling is coming from. Is it perhaps from some fear of “doing everything right” which is closely related to that P word – perfectionism? I wonder. I don’t consider myself a perfectionist but I do like to do the best I can at whatever I do. Is this a problem? Perhaps.
When I start to have too many things on my mind so that I feel stressed and pressured, maybe I need to ask myself that question “What would Jesus do?” Would He want me feeling stressed and pressured by a never ending To Do List? I think not. Jesus came to save us from ourselves and our constant feelings on inadequacy by showing us how much He loves us by dying on the cross, right?
There is nothing I can do to be more loved by Him or anyone else for that matter. I think my sons would rather have a healthy calm mom and fewer presents under the tree, than a mother who gets stressed out, don’t you think? Of course, I am not minimizing the fact that there is a lot more to do around the holidays and the brunt of the work does fall on the woman of the house, but being the woman, I need to take charge of what I do and don’t do. And replace the pressure I feel with a sense of peace and serenity, knowing and trusting that God will work everything out just as it is supposed to be.
Next time, I’ll talk about what I am going to change this season and share practical tips on what to do to avoid holiday stress. Until then, keep calm and keep looking up!